It’s great to tell someone that you love them, that you want to be with them, or that you care about them. But how do you actually show them that you love them with actions? What would you do if your words meant nothing? Especially for men, it can be hard to show our romantic … Read more
“Walls keep everybody out. Boundaries teach them where the door is.” — Mark Groves Are you a doormat? Do you lead your own, independent life? Are you in charge? Or, on the other hand, does your wife or girlfriend tell you exactly what to do? If you’re giving her the reins to your existence, I’ve … Read more
You deserve better than a hum-drum relationship. As a high-achieving man, you are capable of creating a strong, quality connection with a woman who you love. However — as all too many of us know — life doesn’t always pan out as you might expect. When you become complacent in your relationship, you will find … Read more
“We are most alive when we’re in love.” — John Updike Life is better when it’s shared. No man is an island. Creating a high-quality life means nothing if you don’t have a partner by your side. However, you don’t want to go around dating the wrong women who don’t have what it takes to … Read more
Life coaching is one of the most powerful “secret weapons” high-performing men use to go from “good” to “great” and unlock their full potential in every area of life. And inside of the chaos and confusion of modern life, it’s more important now than ever before for men to get the raw masculine support and … Read more
I often hear people nowadays say that they “suck at texting”. People say this as a joke to convey their lack of communication skills, but the truth is that being bad at texting is not funny. No one wants to date someone who is lazy with their words. No one wants to date someone who … Read more
Young men are trained to be warriors. From the time we’re born, we’re told to never give up, never surrender, and to fight for what we love at all costs. All costs – even if it means sacrificing everything we believe in. We’re taught to sacrifice our well-being for our partners, family members, and our … Read more
A lack of motivation and energy can quickly become a crippling and vicious cycle. Even when the source of our low drive isn’t our fault, we start to see ourselves as “lazy” and “unmotivated.” This perceived lack of motivation turns to guilt. This guilt exhausts us even further and creates a flywheel of failure where … Read more
Experiencing the occasional drag of low motivation is a normal part of the human experience. No matter how energetic a person is or how exciting their lives are, we all have days when we’d rather hide under the sheets than get up and pursue our goals. But when our lack of motivation becomes chronic–going on … Read more
If you’re struggling to build the network, friend group, and romantic life you want, working with a social skill coach could be the missing link. In the longest-running study, Harvard University concluded that one’s relationships–not material possessions, financial success, or even physical health–have the greatest impact on happiness and quality of life. In my early … Read more
Masculinity is at a crossroads now more than ever. Men today are confused by what it means to be a real man. Traditionally, masculinity wasn’t something society bothered to question. Before the concepts of gender identity, toxic masculinity, and male dominance entered the conversation, masculinity was easily defined. A man’s ability to protect, provide, and … Read more
Intimacy defines romantic relationships. As a man, the truest connection you will ever know is with your partner. She will be the first person you tell when you get a promotion. She’s the one you confide in when times get tough. She’s the person that you trust to see the most real and most honest … Read more
If you’re struggling with low self-esteem, self-worth, or self doubt you might be wondering if confidence coaching can help you reclaim your sense of power and the “fire in the belly” that you once had. Through a combination of conversation and exercises, confidence coaches help their clients develop greater self-awareness, learn new skills, and set … Read more
No man is an island. Emotional vulnerability is the key to relationship success. We’ve all done it. Building a figurative moat and massive wall around yourself might protect you in the short term but it’s a real error. I’ve been there myself—I used to believe that hiding my vulnerabilities from the world would keep me … Read more
With the exception of sociopaths few people enjoy confrontation. It’s uncomfortable. It causes tension and anxiety. And it’s at direct odds with how our brains are wired through evolution. Outside of life or death situations, we evolved to avoid confronting anyone or anything. Back in hunter-gatherer days, confrontation carried a fatal potential. The conflict between … Read more
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