The plight of the ‘shy guy’ is rough. It doesn’t matter how good-looking, successful, or intelligent you are. If you have difficulty talking to women, your romantic life will be nonexistent. Shy guys lack the self-confidence even to strike up that first conversation. You might find yourself standing in the middle of a busy bar … Read more
You thought you were going to be with her forever. It felt like a perfect relationship, your true “happily ever after.” You were torn apart when she left and decided to go her way. All you can do is think about her, wish for her to come back, and wonder how you can live without … Read more
Every human wants to feel special. We fill our lives with little acknowledgments of specialness and celebrations of importance to ensure that each of us feels this sense of unique belonging. We give each other names to distinguish our specialness from that of another. We celebrate the day of our birth each year to recognize … Read more
So, you think you’ve met your dream girl? She’s everything you’ve ever wanted – and more. She’s pretty, smart, funny, kind, emotionally intelligent… and great in bed. She’s everything you’ve ever wanted. But… There’s always a but. In reality, it doesn’t feel right. The relationship feels incomplete. It feels wrong. Maybe, you and your “perfect … Read more
Being a man in the modern world is confusing at times. With the mainstream media constantly chipping away at the male image while the “love yourself” movement insists that you are perfect just the way you are, knowing the best way to live and how (or if) you can be better has never been more … Read more
You’ve met the girl and fallen in love, and now, you think you’re going to run off into the sunset and have the life you imagine because you grew up watching Disney movies. Right? Probably not. You’re probably at that point in the relationship where there’s a disconnect. You’re not on the same page anymore. … Read more
Modern society is a social trap – we’re not limited by famine, disease, or a lack of technology, we’re limited by our minds. We’re limited by the way we interact with each other. Instead of being hungry or sick, we’re depressed and anxious. This is our trap! The root of all of this suffering is … Read more
Intelligence is one of the most attractive attributes in a woman that most men look for. An intelligent woman enriches your life with engaging conversation, stimulating new ideas, and the mysterious charm that accompanies anything that we cannot fully understand. Women have varying degrees of complexity and depth that distinguish the “good” from the “just … Read more
When you first met her, you felt a spark that came over you. She became your best friend, your closest lover, and so much more. As time passed, things continued to be great… until they weren’t. Somewhere along the line, you started to feel like there is a disconnect between the two of you. Is … Read more
You don’t want to be the man working late nights trying to make ends meet, and one day, you find out your girlfriend does not want a relationship with your anymore. It’s true, work has been particularly heavy-handed with the hours, but you didn’t expect this to happen. When confronted, she points out that you’ve … Read more
For many men, committing to a serious relationship is one of the most challenging decisions in life. This isn’t without reason. So much of what we consider valuable hangs on this decision–your future, her future, and your state of happiness. A poorly chosen partner can wreak years of havoc on your life and leave you … Read more
Pursuing women you’re attracted to is exhilarating. The “chase” taps into something very primal in us men, and it can be exhilarating to pursue a woman who you think is beautiful, intelligent, and fun to be around. But when you should you give up? The problem for most of us is that our ego starts … Read more
There is no worse feeling than the feeling of desperation that comes to you when you realize your once-healthy relationship is decaying. It can drive you mad. The woman that has for so long been the dearest thing to your heart–the centerpiece of your existence–seems to be slipping slowly from your hands and you feel … Read more
Every relationship has its share of arguments and fights. Conflict is a relationship’s ever-present companion. But how do you tell if your relationship has too much conflict or too many fights? How do you tell if you’re going through the natural stages of a healthy relationship or are entangled in a bad relationship that needs … Read more
I wish I could sit here and tell you that relationships are just like they are in the movies. I wish I could tell you that the honeymoon phase lasts forever, that love always wins, and that your relationship will be okay, no matter what anyone else tells you. That would be a lie. The … Read more
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