Most men (especially those facing a midlife crisis) falsely believe that attraction is a fixed variable. They think of it as something innate, and they are powerless to change. In other words, some guys just ‘have it’ and others don’t. Attractiveness is something that men can build. It is something that men can learn. And … Read more
Does your relationship ever feel unpredictable? Do you ever feel it swings back and forth between hot and cold–one moment you’re on a mountain of euphoric bliss, feeling closer to your partner than ever before, and the next you’re plunged into a valley of uncertainty and sudden, unexplainable distance? Romantic evenings filled with laughs and … Read more
There’s an old saying: “The most important decision a man will ever make is the woman he chooses to marry.” While there’s definitely truth to this, I’d offer a slightly different take. “The most important decision a man will ever make is the woman he chooses to marry AND how he chooses to show up … Read more
A lot of people think that your life ends when you turn 30. 40? To most people in modern society, 40 is ancient. But is it really? If you’re a single man in your 40s, is there still hope for you to find “the one” and live the life you’ve always wanted? I don’t just … Read more
Finding the perfect romantic partner was never going to be easy, but you probably weren’t expecting it to be as challenging as it is. Though many people do end up finding romantic partners, they don’t find love, happiness, and the “perfect” relationship. Many men struggle to find quality romantic partners for their entire lives. I’ve … Read more
Casual dating is a nightmare that we’re all looking to escape. Hook-ups, flings, ghosting, swiping – all of it. It’s chaos and can feel like a bottomless pit for many men in today’s dating world. But maybe you’ve found someone who gives you hope. You’ve found a girl worth committing to. Or, maybe you just … Read more
Assertiveness is one of a man’s most crucial—and often neglected—skills. Assertiveness is often mistakenly classified as aggressiveness, completely changing how many men view and think about themselves. It’s important to understand that our masculine instincts create a certain innate aggressiveness unique to our sex. Studies have shown that even among young children, males have more … Read more
For most men, achieving financial prosperity is one of their primary goals in life. They think that if they can accrue a certain amount of wealth—buy a bigger house, or purchase a certain car, their purpose in life will be fulfilled. The problem that many men encounter is that after they achieve this level of … Read more
I want you to take a minute and think about something: when was the last time you saw your partner lust over you? When was the last time you noticed her truly eyeing you with desire? Does it feel like a rare sight these days? Are your sexual encounters becoming few and far between? Do … Read more
So… your wife doesn’t love you anymore. Perhaps she’s said this outright, or you’ve just got a feeling that something is just ‘off.’ Oppositely, maybe you’re the one who isn’t feeling right. You don’t feel the same attraction or compassion as you once did. You aren’t entirely sure of the cause, but you have become … Read more
A happy, fulfilling life is impossible if you don’t love yourself. Self-love is at the root of everything of value in a man’s life–relationships, health, and overall contentment. If you can’t look yourself in the mirror and feel generally pleased with the man who stares back, your life will never quite feel full. You may … Read more
When you’re a man, being cheated on tends to go one of two ways… Either you let the experience destroy you, shattering your faith in the opposite sex altogether and turning you into an untrusting, insecure, and emotionally damaged man… Or you find the inner strength to turn your pain into power. Rather than let … Read more
Most men do not achieve their goals. Most men don’t become happy, don’t succeed at the things that are most important to them, and do not thrive in this world. In reality, only a few men (as few as 8%) are truly “successful” in their own eyes. Sure, you can contort the definition of success … Read more
Are you in a relationship that constantly feels off-balance? Does it seem like one person reaps all the rewards while the other is forced to cater to that person’s every whim? Do you feel like you’re caught in a lose-lose situation? You’re trying to support your partner and keep them happy, but the more effort … Read more
Is your life stuck on repeat? Does it feel like you’re caught in a never-ending cycle of the same struggles, frustrations, and disappointments? Do you quietly feel jaded by a stagnant career, a lackluster love life, or a low social standing? Are you desperate for a breakthrough—for the opportunity to taste real success—but don’t know … Read more
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