You’ve heard the saying probably hundreds of times by now: “Nice guys finish last.” Do nice guys really miss out when it comes to dating? Is being a nice guy so bad? You’re not going to like the answer. It’s not a great experience to be a nice guy. Most nice guys do finish last. … Read more
Most men never reach their potential. They fall short of who they want to be and live mediocre lives. Even the “best” of us — the ones standing at 6’4, walking around with washboard abs, a beautiful girlfriend by their side, working high-paying jobs, and meeting all the typical standards for “a good life” — … Read more
You can count on one hand the number of important historical events brought about by one man alone. The world and all we consider valuable are built by many hands and many minds working in coordinated unison. Bill Gates lit the microcomputer revolution but his work would not have come to fruition without the financial … Read more
The definition of a true gentleman has evolved with time. While the answer may have been clear in the ’40s or ’50s, it’s a bit more complicated today. Back then, a gentleman was expected to be chivalrous, courteous, and well-mannered. He was also expected to be strong, both physically and emotionally, and to have high … Read more
Every man must learn to stand in front of the mirror, raise his eyes, and confront whatever beast it is that stares back. Failing to look in this mirror is settling for a life of mediocrity and mundanity–a slow crawl to an inevitable and inconsequential death. The scary part? You don’t have to look in … Read more
When it comes to self-improvement, it can be very helpful to think of yourself as if you were an athlete. Instead of competing with an opponent, you’re only competing with your past self. This might sound corny, but this is likely why self-improvement and fitness journeys go hand-in-hand. Doing physical labor creates the sensation that … Read more
It doesn’t take a prophet to see that the world of men is heading in a dangerous direction. If you have any doubts, consider the following statistics: Men need help now more than ever. With no one to turn to and an undeniable stigma against seeking help, wounds are left to fester and grow, driving … Read more
When most people hear the phrase “dating coach,” the first things that come to mind are either the cheesy pickup artists doing magic tricks in the streets to try and get women’s phone numbers or Instagram “influencers” showing off a (likely paid) harem of women on a (likely rented) yacht. The dating coach industry is … Read more
If you’re like most men, this ideal man you want to be is far from who you are today. He’s got some of the same components as you, but he’s an entirely unrecognizable guy. This ideal guy isn’t so different from you, and reaching this ideal self isn’t an impossibility. He’s just you with a … Read more
For most men, the idea of valuing themselves more feels illegal. It’s something they’d never even fathom doing for themselves. Men today have not been taught how to genuinely value themselves in a way conducive to their long-term growth. Most men have been beaten into submission by a society that makes money off their insecurities. … Read more
If you want to live a life you’re proud of, you have to stop being nice. Being nice is good when you’re getting groceries or ordering at a restaurant, but when it comes to dating, being a “nice guy” is catastrophic for your relationship potential. Niceness is usually a sign of weakness. Nice people are … Read more
Intimacy is a strange thing. When you have a love life filled with sexual intimacy and flings, sex stops feeling like a big deal. However, when your relationship features a dead bedroom, sex suddenly becomes a big deal. Whether we want to admit it or not, men crave intimacy. It doesn’t even have to be … Read more
Most men don’t understand how to play hard to get. They also don’t understand when they’re being too clingy. Most men are completely lost when it comes to getting and holding the attention of a woman to whom they’re attracted. They’re too quick to drop everything in the name of love, and it makes them … Read more
After a relationship, you’re plastered with feelings and emotions you probably don’t want to deal with. You might feel angry, depressed, frustrated, broken, or alone. Breakups are hard – I get it. Losing a loved one isn’t exactly my idea of a good time, either. But that being said, a breakup is a crossroads for … Read more
When you think about your wife and how she looked on her wedding day, you probably remember the adoration she gave you as she said, “I do.” Perhaps it hurts so much when you realize you can’t remember the last time she looked that way or why you feel so alone in your relationship. There’s … Read more
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