Some breakups feel like dying. Breaking up alters your brain chemistry, and a bad one with an abusive person can leave you stranded and lost as to who you are. Even if you don’t feel your emotions deeply, you can still be dramatically altered after a breakup. You’ll feel pain deeper than normal, and as … Read more
Dating a controlling person can be suffocating. It feels like everywhere you turn, you’re making a wrong move. Your autonomy has been replaced with slavery, and you’re expected to tailor your entire life to the needs of someone else. Worse still, controlling partners will tell you that what they’re doing (controlling you) is “love.” But … Read more
Being an introvert and trying online dating is often likened to a doomed mission. Dating is an extrovert’s game. If you listen to standard dating advice, trying to create a dating profile means you have to be super tall, wealthy, and filled to the brim with popularity-enhancing photos. Believe it or not, online dating sites … Read more
We have all heard about men who married women who just walked out the door. In many cases, it came as a shock to the men who were left. They knew they weren’t putting in much effort, but they never thought it’d be bad enough to make the girl want to leave them. Regardless of … Read more
New relationships are confusing and often stressful, but they don’t have to be. The core problem is that most men spend the early months (or even years) of new relationships acting in the way they want to, based on how they feel they should act. They act based on what they think they know about … Read more
Divorce, especially after a long relationship, is soul-destroying to a man. It is the second most stressful thing someone can experience, only preceded by the death of a spouse or child. Regardless of whether you or she initiated the split and whether it was an inevitable conclusion or the divorce papers arrived on your desk … Read more
No one wants a divorce. Divorce is one of the most mentally and emotionally painful experiences a man can go through. It crushes your soul, destroys your hopes for the future, and plunges you into a deep, dark pit of despair. You don’t want a divorce, but there seems to be no escape. You and … Read more
Are you in a situationship? Are you unsure what the phrase even means? Is it the same as “friends with benefits”? Well, not quite… Just so we’re all clear here, let’s first define situationship. In essence, a situationship lies somewhere between a committed relationship and friendship. What makes a situationship unique is that neither party … Read more
When most people hear the phrase “dating coach,” the first things that come to mind are either the cheesy pickup artists doing magic tricks in the streets to try and get women’s phone numbers or Instagram “influencers” showing off a (likely paid) harem of women on a (likely rented) yacht. The dating coach industry is … Read more
Intimacy is a strange thing. When you have a love life filled with sexual intimacy and flings, sex stops feeling like a big deal. However, when your relationship features a dead bedroom, sex suddenly becomes a big deal. Whether we want to admit it or not, men crave intimacy. It doesn’t even have to be … Read more
After a relationship, you’re plastered with feelings and emotions you probably don’t want to deal with. You might feel angry, depressed, frustrated, broken, or alone. Breakups are hard – I get it. Losing a loved one isn’t exactly my idea of a good time, either. But that being said, a breakup is a crossroads for … Read more
When you think about your wife and how she looked on her wedding day, you probably remember the adoration she gave you as she said, “I do.” Perhaps it hurts so much when you realize you can’t remember the last time she looked that way or why you feel so alone in your relationship. There’s … Read more
“How can I attract women and improve my dating life?” If you use random articles on Google as your source of truth, the answers seem to be pretty simple: Voila, you’re Casanova reincarnated. The challenge, however, is that attracting women in the real world isn’t so cut and dry. Open body language is great, good … Read more
The most brutal breakup of your life will likely be one of the hardest things you’ll ever experience. When you lose someone you believed to be the love of your life, your entire reality is thrown off base. You’re forced to rebuild, and it feels like you’re starting with nothing. On a primal level, a … Read more
When you break up with someone, it can feel like you’ve lost everything. Speaking purely transactionally, all you lose is a person, but it feels like so much more. This is because, after a breakup, you don’t just lose a person. You lose a piece of yourself devoted to that special person who is now … Read more
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