Relationships

For many men, dating in the modern world seems close to impossible. With dating apps running the romantic economy, social media constantly pushing an unreasonable standard for men, and hook-up culture and zero-commitment relationships rising in popularity, modern dating can seem like a game tailored to wealthy, ripped, above-average-height playboys. Why would she choose you … Read more

Divorce can shake even the strongest men to their core, leaving them to feel lost and overwhelmed. Many find themselves struggling to move forward and make sense of their new life. Divorce can also bring a host of new challenges: emotional turmoil, financial strain, career pressure, and the delicate balance of co-parenting (if you have … Read more

Relationships overflowing with love are hard, so why would any man endure a relationship devoid of it? To an outsider looking in, it’s a mystifying dilemma because the answer seems so clear: when there’s no love, it’s time to leave. But to many men, it isn’t that simple. Over my decade plus as a men’s … Read more

Even the strongest relationships can go through dry spells. If you and your partner are growing apart, it may feel like you’re on a downward spiral out of your control.  You might feel like your wife or girlfriend is more of a roommate than a significant other. Your conversations may be few and far between, … Read more

So, you found ‘the one.” Or… you think you did, at least. You’ve spoken to your friends, family members, and co-workers about this woman, and the phrase ‘wifey material’ is getting thrown around a lot.  The problem is, you’re not sure what that phrase even means.  You love her, sure, but for some reason, you … Read more

Have you ever been in a nearly perfect relationship, but you lost it? Have you ever been in love with someone and pushed them away because you couldn’t love them the way they needed to be loved? Have you ever grown to hate someone you love because you aren’t the right man for them right … Read more

No woman wants to be with a passive man. Studies consistently show that passivity and lack of direction in men are among the biggest turn-offs to women. Why? Because women want to be led. They seek a man who can be a safe place–a harbor in the restless seas of life. They want to be … Read more

If you find yourself on this page, it’s likely because there’s a stinging feeling of doubt echoing through your relationship, a sense that something just isn’t right. Perhaps these feelings have been simmering for a while, leaving you in need of clarity and truth. It’s not just about suspecting she’s cheating; it’s about needing to … Read more

We all want to feel secure in our relationships. We all want to be with someone we can trust. We’re all searching for that foundation, that bedrock, that’ll provide us with stability, comfort, and happiness. But sometimes, we end up in situations that rock those foundations, like being involved with a woman who has close … Read more

In modern dating, the distinction between chasing and pursuing a woman is a subtle yet crucial one. Consider the following: Despite living in an era of unprecedented connectivity and social interaction, many men find themselves adrift in the sea of modern dating, grappling with questions like: “What’s the right way to show interest in a … Read more

For most men, frame control is a confusing topic; it’s too complicated. They give up on trying to understand frames, and on trying to control balance and respect in their relationships. They give up on trying to understand the women they are pursuing and start to blame everyone and everything but themselves for their relationship … Read more

Few things in life can be as debilitating as a divorce. At the same time, divorce can also be an incredibly liberating experience. Even more fascinating is the fact that it can be both these things at the same time.  If you’ve just gotten divorced, you may feel a mix of anger, sadness, regret, relief, … Read more

For many men, divorce is the single most emotional experience of their lives. A mix of anger, sadness, confusion, betrayal, and loss can leave a man feeling vulnerable, isolated, and overwhelmed.  Societal expectations can make it difficult for a man to process his emotions, leading to further feelings of isolation. It isn’t uncommon for a … Read more

Do you ever feel as if your girlfriend is afraid to love you? Do you feel as if the more you give, the more she pulls away and the only time she actually surrenders to your relationship is when she fears she’s losing you? If this sounds familiar to you, you’re dealing with a woman … Read more