Got a date lined up? Fantastic. But are you ready for it? Are you ready to move past the one-liners and ice-breakers and onto serious conversation? Are you sitting there, making a mental or physical list of things to talk about, when the inevitable awkward silence sets in? If so, keep reading; this is the … Read more
A lack of clarity is one of the surest signs of a relationship destined for failure. When a couple isn’t in agreement on these three relational cornerstones… …things tend to fall apart very quickly. Without a mutually agreed-upon vision and collaborative effort from both parties, navigating a relationship feels like being lost at sea with … Read more
The world of dating often feels tailored to the extrovert. Most men live under the false impression that dating means bars, pickup lines, and endless small talk. As an introvert, it often feels like dating is acting like someone you are not. One too many nights spent alone at the bar or awkward silences in … Read more
If you’re single and looking for love in Boston, well, it just so happens that you’re in the right place! Research by the dating app Bumble and Apartment List found that Boston is the second-best city in all of America for singles and dating. Researchers studied 100 cities across America to determine which were the … Read more
Let’s not mince words––breakups suck. Especially for men. Despite the stereotypes, studies have shown that men struggle to recover from breakups more than women. The pain hits harder, lasts longer, and is more difficult to overcome. In fact, according to studies using FMRI technology, the pain of a breakup lights up the brain in the … Read more
I can’t help but feel overwhelmed by an unending flood of self-proposed men’s experts and gurus, each one peddling identical advice to men like a broken record… Looking for the woman of your dreams? Wanting to create a lasting high-quality relationship? Desperate to rescue your marriage from the jaws of divorce? They shout… Take these … Read more
How do you communicate? Instinctively, you would probably say you communicate using words. This could be with words you speak, words you write, or words you type… But what if I were to tell you that your body language has a far more significant impact on your overall communication than the words actually coming out … Read more
“It’s all in your head.” This phrase is usually used to express the idea that something a person is experiencing is imagined and isn’t real. It’s a rather crude way to dismiss someone’s worries about a particular situation. But what if we change the context of this phrase? What if we remove the negative connotation … Read more
Most men (especially those facing a midlife crisis) falsely believe that attraction is a fixed variable. They think of it as something innate, and they are powerless to change. In other words, some guys just ‘have it’ and others don’t. Attractiveness is something that men can build. It is something that men can learn. And … Read more
Does your relationship ever feel unpredictable? Do you ever feel it swings back and forth between hot and cold–one moment you’re on a mountain of euphoric bliss, feeling closer to your partner than ever before, and the next you’re plunged into a valley of uncertainty and sudden, unexplainable distance? Romantic evenings filled with laughs and … Read more
There’s an old saying: “The most important decision a man will ever make is the woman he chooses to marry.” While there’s definitely truth to this, I’d offer a slightly different take. “The most important decision a man will ever make is the woman he chooses to marry AND how he chooses to show up … Read more
A lot of people think that your life ends when you turn 30. 40? To most people in modern society, 40 is ancient. But is it really? If you’re a single man in your 40s, is there still hope for you to find “the one” and live the life you’ve always wanted? I don’t just … Read more
Finding the perfect romantic partner was never going to be easy, but you probably weren’t expecting it to be as challenging as it is. Though many people do end up finding romantic partners, they don’t find love, happiness, and the “perfect” relationship. Many men struggle to find quality romantic partners for their entire lives. I’ve … Read more
Casual dating is a nightmare that we’re all looking to escape. Hook-ups, flings, ghosting, swiping – all of it. It’s chaos and can feel like a bottomless pit for many men in today’s dating world. But maybe you’ve found someone who gives you hope. You’ve found a girl worth committing to. Or, maybe you just … Read more
Assertiveness is one of a man’s most crucial—and often neglected—skills. Assertiveness is often mistakenly classified as aggressiveness, completely changing how many men view and think about themselves. It’s important to understand that our masculine instincts create a certain innate aggressiveness unique to our sex. Studies have shown that even among young children, males have more … Read more
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