A very common post I often see from Yahoo Answers about how to get your ex girlfriend back.
What he did here is exactly what you should NOT do to get your ex girlfriend back. I am sorry to have to put this guy on the spot but, the
lesson learned here shall help you all.
Here is the post and bolded are all the critical mistakes he made,
“Hi so like a month ago my girlfriend broke up with me. I messed up and I told her nothing happened she says she believes me but can’t be with me anymore. She said she still loved me and wants to help me get over her. For the first 2 weeks I couldn’t stop calling her and texting her I begged her to come back and at the begging she said she didn’t realize that I was so hurt and said she would give me another chance then a few hours later say texted me to tell me that she couldn’t. And after 2 weeks she moved and changed her email and said she wouldn’t want anything to do with me anymore.
And on the 3rd week someone hacked her and her friends and sent her emails telling her to get back to me and she thought it was me and that I hacked her an her friends it wasn’t me! And now she thinks I’m crazy.
This girl is my soulmate I loved her so much and she loved me the same.
Now she thinks I’m crazy and I just want her back what do I do???”
OK. This guy made several huge mistakes in trying to get his ex girlfriend back, so let’s go over them in detail to prevent this from happening to you or your buddies.
First, let’s take a step back and look at this from a different angle. When a woman breaks up with a man she emotionally checked out of the relationship months before she had the courage to tell the man.
For example, when he says “she believes me but can’t be with me anymore”.
You see her mind is set and there is nothing that is going to stop her. No changing, no money, gifts or amount of begging is going to get her back.
She’s gone and you have to face the music, yet it’s not too late to get your ex girlfriend back.
And he goes on to say “she still loved me and wants to help me get over her”.
SHE DOES NOT LOVE HIM OR ELSE SHE WOULDN’T BREAK UP WITH HIM! Plain and simple.
If she loves you she will be with you forever. If she doesn’t, she will break up with you and find love elsewhere.
And the biggest mistake yet is about to come…
“I couldn’t stop calling her and texting herI begged her to come back”.
THIS DESTROYS ANY HOPE OF EVER GETTNING A WOMAN BACK! Guaranteed.
Guys it never works and never will. The key after a relationship is to stop and avoid all contact from your ex for at least 30 days. No matter how painful it is do not contact her! Let her wonder why you are not contacting her and she will be the one to contact you! See how that works.
But, if you keep calling and texting her see what happens. “after 2 weeks she moved and changed her email” Think of it this way, every call or text is pushing her away from you further and further.
His biggest mistake is still not understanding what happened, he still is in love with her and thinks SHE IS TO. He will probably continue to try to contact her online, annoy her friends, and do this for another 6 months to a year.
Guys, the lesson here is to NOT chase her after the relationship ends. You want to take some time to figure out what happened, learn from it, then recouperate. Go out with your friends, and family. And just live life to the fullest. She will notice how unaffected you are by the break up and be more attracted to you this way. it’s the only way to regain that confidence and rebuild the attraction.
By the way, I contacted the guy and gave him some advice on how to get his ex girlfriend back. I’m not that mean to make an example out of him online 😉
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