65: Alan Currie: Let Women Know What You’re Really Thinking

Alan Roger Currie is an Interpersonal Communication Consultant and Verbal Skills Expert who provides advice to men and women on how to improve the manner in which they convey their romantic and sexual desires, interests and intentions to members of the opposite sex.

Currie is currently the Host of two talk radio podcast programs, ‘Upfront & Straightforward with Alan Roger Currie’ and ‘The Erotic Conversationalist’. Currie has interviewed a number of book authors who have written books in the dating and relationships genre as well as the sex and seduction genre. Currie divides his time between Northwest Indiana and Southern California.

Favorite Success Quote

“The real, raw, harsh truth is always more beneficial in the long run than a pleasant lie.” – Alan Currie

Key Points

1. Just Tell Women What You Want 

Men, let me present you with an exciting, revolutionary, breakthrough method for communicating with women.

Tell them what you want.

It’s that simple.

Stop beating around the bush and trying to deceive your way into a woman’s bedroom and just tell her what you want.

If you are looking for casual sex, then tell her.

If you are looking for someone to build a relationship with, then tell her.

If you are looking for a woman to have an ongoing non-monogamous relationship with, then come out and say it.

The biggest problem that men have when it comes to communicating with women is that they don’t express their wants, needs, and desires.

Step up and speak your truth.

Women will appreciate it and it will make your life a lot simpler.

2. Let Your True Self Shine Through 

We’ve all been told to “Just be yourself.”

We all know this internally.

But how many of us actually live by this principle?

You see, most men are sedating and diluting themselves because they think that it will garner approval from society and the women that they want to seduce.

But what they don’t realize is that by presenting this diluted level of themselves, they become just like every other man trying to win a woman’s attention.

If you want to become a master of authentic seduction, then you need to let your true self shine through.

Be you, be unapologetically, fiercely, and wholly you.

Don’t repress your true self to please the world.

Because it is only by expressing your true self that you can start to attract the women that you truly want into your life.

3. Stop Living Your Life to Please Others 

We only get one shot at this life.

One chance to make it count.

One opportunity to seize everything that we ever wanted.

So why waste it living life to please others?

If you are a man, then step up and take responsibility for your life.

Embrace your dreams, your ambitions, and your desires.

Live life on your terms, pursuing the things that you want and not pandering to the desires of anyone or anything else.

Life is too damn short and you can’t please everyone.

So why don’t you focus on living a life that is pleasing to yourself?

4. Understand the Difference Between Rejection and Resistance 

When you decide to open up, embrace your authentic self, and tell women what you want, you are going to come into contact with both rejection and resistance, and it is imperative that you understand the difference.

Rejection is exactly what it sounds like.

This is when a woman is in a relationship, clearly does not want to be in your company, or expresses a strong sentiment of dislike.

Resistance, on the other hand, is what occurs when a woman is interested, or at the very least curious, and she wants to test you to see if you measure up.

When a woman presents you with resistance, she is not saying no, she is simply saying “Tell me more.”

5. Don’t Avoid the Topic of Sex 

One of the biggest mistakes that men make when communicating with women is that they avoid the topic of sex.

They think that it’s taboo.

They think it’s off limits.

And they think it will lead to rejection.

But the truth of the matter is, women think about sex just as much as you (if not more).

Learn how to tactfully broach the subject in your conversations with women and you will be astounded at how often they will reciprocate and escalate the conversation.

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