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3 Things Men Need to Start Doing Right Now! – Relationship Advice Friday

Today is Relationship Advice  Friday’s!

Haven’t you always wanted to ask a woman what she wants from a man, and get an honest answer?  Well, here’s your chance to get powerful relationship advice from a woman to men.

Meet Laura. She’s beautiful, smart and has a few things she wants to get off her chest…

Listen Up
Guys, each woman you meet is unique. In the same way, you would want her to know about you, get to know her. Ask me questions and actually listen to the answers. So many guys start a conversation just because they think the conversation is good. It’s like guys think the longer the conversation the better they are doing and closer they are to getting my number.

Most guys are not even listening to what I’m saying, they’re either thinking about what they are going to say, or staring at my boobs. It’s one or the other, and both are equally annoying. I think guys are so afraid they’re going to fail and i’m going to stand up on a chair and point at how bad they suck to everyone. haha this is far from the truth. In fact, I just want to have fun and most guys don’t understand this. It’s not about being some “rico suave” guy it’s really about going out and making the most out of the night.

So guys, this isn’t just an empty exercise – you might actually enjoy getting to know her!  As a bonus tip — this part doesn’t stop when you enter a relationship.  She is still developing her interests, so try to follow along. Image courtesy of Marcus / blonde woman on stairs

Just do it
Why is it that men would rather have a root canal than approach a woman, right? We’re really not that bad. We want you to approach us. I go out to have a good time so if you can bring that to me then you better approach me. If you’re boring, shy, and lack confidence then yeah…

I’m not trying to be mean but I don’t really want to spend time with someone who is so unsure of himself. I want a confident man who know’s how to have a good time. 

I don’t care what he looks like just be happy to be out. Be happy to be you!

If you want to just say hi, then do it. If you happen to overhear that her favorite movie is the same as yours, mention it.
Whether she is there with her friends, or to meet someone, it doesn’t matter. The issue isn’t her response, it’s your expectation.
If you expect to enhance her evening and make her smile, then that goal is attainable. If anything more should happen, then more power to you.
Don’t be just one more guy at the bar with a cheesy pick-up line.  Be intelligent, witty, and confident.  That is what will make you memorable. And most importantly HAVE FUN! Literally having fun is the best piece of relationship advice I could give a guy. 🙂

You’ve heard this one before, but don’t assume I mean it the same way.  I like a little mystery – intrigue, interest, appeal.  So don’t give it all away on the first date.  That is too needy for almost any woman.  But don’t hold it all back either.

If you become too unavailable, it can come across as uninterested.

I know, it’s a fine line between clingy and distant, but it can be done.  Whether you are looking for dating advice or relationship advice, it’s not that much different.
You need to have your own interests and friends and activities. Keep your own sense of identity. I’m interested in getting to know you, so make it worth my time.
If you call and text and see me constantly, what on earth will we continue to talk about?  There is no news to talk with each other. No excitement.  A little mystery goes a long way guys.

All of this to say – Have Fun. It’s really all that matters. Yes, it can be called a game, but what if you can change that.  This dating and relationship advice isn’t just a means to an end.  You could discover that you’re enjoying the process.  You could learn that you are honestly interested in getting to know this woman. Focus on having fun and less on how to make the girl like you and everything may just fall into place.

This video says it all…”Girls just wanna have fun”

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