330: Triambika Ma Vive: Demystifying the Art of Authentic Sex & Connection

Triambika is an internationally recognized seminar leader, professional sex and conscious intimacy coach and the founder of The Ecstatic Awareness Institute.

She has guided thousands of men and women to empower their sexuality, by helping them to release shame, gain confidence, learn to have extraordinary sex, experience exceptional stamina and create healthier relationships.

Her powerful work with singles and couples have been featured on the Playboy channel, Personal Life Media, Source Tantra, Gilad Creative Media and as the lead host and emcee for the International Sex and Consciousness Conferences.

Triambika brings her depth, intuition, passion and magnetism to her work. Harnessing her extensive training and practice with the time-honored tradition of Tantra, human sexuality, non-dual spirituality, masculine and feminine dynamics, NLP, and body-based modalities including yogic therapy and bodywork, she helps her clients to reach authentic sexual freedom and to form fulfilling relationships that support the highest expression of who they are.

Favorite Success Quote

“Challenges are what make life interesting and overcoming them is what makes life meaningful” ~Joshua J. Marine

Key Points

1. Men Must Learn to Balance Their Energies

While the deterioration of established gender roles within our society has allowed for many phenomenal progressions to occur within our society, the simultaneous deterioration of the family has caused these changes to create a rift among men.

Without strong and enlightened male role models in their lives, most young men walk through life desperately searching for an identity and a definition of masculinity.

And unfortunately, many find that identity in the wrong place.

You see most modern men fall into one of two categories.

They are either the completely emasculated shell of a man who wears his heart on his sleeve, is unwilling to do the necessary work to succeed, and refuses to stand up for himself.

Or they are hyper masculine men whose entire sense of self is derived from their ability to achieve, to conquer women, and to be the most “alpha” guy in the room.

But what if there was a third option?

What if there was a man who was unashamedly masculine, who went after what he wanted, who lived life on the bleeding edge, who was unafraid to stand up for himself or others?


He was also unafraid to dive into his feminine, to experience all the emotions that life has to offer, to cry and laugh and hurt and be vulnerable without fearing judgment.

That is the kind of man that we must all strive to be.

And the man that women long to be with.

2. Slow Down With Your Woman

As men, we all love sex.

But something that we do not realize that for a woman to fully experience and appreciate intercourse on a whole new level, we as men need to slow down.

And I am not just talking about lasting longer.

You see, sex is something that is incredibly psychological for women more so than it is physical.

For a woman, the way that you look at her throughout the day, the way that you send her texts telling her you are excited to see her, the way that you romance and seduce her, no matter how long you have known each other is the difference between good sex and mind blowing sex.

Learn to slow down, not just for the sake of your sexual relationships, but for the sake of everything else in your life as well.

We move too damn fast in our modern world, never taking time to be fully present and appreciate each moment.

Slow down and you will live life on a frequency that you never thought possible, and you will also open up your woman in ways that you never thought possible.

3. Breathe

I know that this might seem like a simplistic concept, yet no matter how simple the concept of breath might seem, its importance is literally life changing.

Just within the context of sex, a man who masters his breath will be able to control ejaculations, last as long as he wishes, and experience pleasure within the sexual realm that he never thought possible.

But the breath extends beyond sex into every part of life, because… well, the breath is life.

We live in a day and age where most people do not take the time to just breathe and appreciate the moment.

They live lives at the speed of sound, slouched over, and breathing in shallow spurts.

If you want to revolutionize your health, your mental clarity, and your sexual life learn to deepen your breath and begin taking time for yourself to simply breathe.

Influential Books

1. The Art of Conscious Loving by Charles Muir

2.  The Art of Everyday Ecstasy by Margot Anand

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