Do you feel like you’re standing in the shadow of other men? Do you feign confidence but secretly feel deeply insecure in your own skin? Have you been practicing aphorisms such as “fake it till you make it” with little success? Do you devour self-help books, hoping they’ll unlock the inner confidence you hope is … Read more
You shouldn’t adopt reading as a “hobby.” You should adopt reading as a way of life. Books are perhaps the single most powerful tool for developing a stronger mind, problem-solving skills, self-confidence, and anything else you feel you need. If it’s possible, there’s likely a book about it somewhere. Today, we’re looking at becoming more … Read more
A man’s mind has the power to be his most fearsome enemy or his most loyal friend. Learn how to control it, and you claim mastery over your life and happiness. Let it own you; you’re nothing more than a rag-doll of feelings and emotions flung about in the heartless storms of life. The question … Read more
You’ve heard the saying probably hundreds of times by now: “Nice guys finish last.” Do nice guys really miss out when it comes to dating? Is being a nice guy so bad? You’re not going to like the answer. It’s not a great experience to be a nice guy. Most nice guys do finish last. … Read more
You can count on one hand the number of important historical events brought about by one man alone. The world and all we consider valuable are built by many hands and many minds working in coordinated unison. Bill Gates lit the microcomputer revolution but his work would not have come to fruition without the financial … Read more
The definition of a true gentleman has evolved with time. While the answer may have been clear in the ’40s or ’50s, it’s a bit more complicated today. Back then, a gentleman was expected to be chivalrous, courteous, and well-mannered. He was also expected to be strong, both physically and emotionally, and to have high … Read more
Every man must learn to stand in front of the mirror, raise his eyes, and confront whatever beast it is that stares back. Failing to look in this mirror is settling for a life of mediocrity and mundanity–a slow crawl to an inevitable and inconsequential death. The scary part? You don’t have to look in … Read more
When it comes to self-improvement, it can be very helpful to think of yourself as if you were an athlete. Instead of competing with an opponent, you’re only competing with your past self. This might sound corny, but this is likely why self-improvement and fitness journeys go hand-in-hand. Doing physical labor creates the sensation that … Read more
It doesn’t take a prophet to see that the world of men is heading in a dangerous direction. If you have any doubts, consider the following statistics: Men need help now more than ever. With no one to turn to and an undeniable stigma against seeking help, wounds are left to fester and grow, driving … Read more
If you’re like most men, this ideal man you want to be is far from who you are today. He’s got some of the same components as you, but he’s an entirely unrecognizable guy. This ideal guy isn’t so different from you, and reaching this ideal self isn’t an impossibility. He’s just you with a … Read more
For most men, the idea of valuing themselves more feels illegal. It’s something they’d never even fathom doing for themselves. Men today have not been taught how to genuinely value themselves in a way conducive to their long-term growth. Most men have been beaten into submission by a society that makes money off their insecurities. … Read more
If you want to live a life you’re proud of, you have to stop being nice. Being nice is good when you’re getting groceries or ordering at a restaurant, but when it comes to dating, being a “nice guy” is catastrophic for your relationship potential. Niceness is usually a sign of weakness. Nice people are … Read more
Most men don’t understand how to play hard to get. They also don’t understand when they’re being too clingy. Most men are completely lost when it comes to getting and holding the attention of a woman to whom they’re attracted. They’re too quick to drop everything in the name of love, and it makes them … Read more
Throughout history, all great men have understood the importance of conscious men’s retreats. Whether it was Theodore Roosevelt eschewing his political duties to go on big game safaris or Ernest Hemingway backpacking across foreign countries with his closest friends – the greatest men all understood the importance of breaking free from their routine to push … Read more
Most people fail to reach their full potential in life. Their dreams die long before their physical bodies do. They live their lives in a state of “quiet desperation”.” They die with more regrets than memories. They’re miserable. I don’t want that to be you, and it doesn’t have to be you. The truth is … Read more
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