8 Best Ways to Actually Let Go of Relationship Baggage

let go of relationship baggage

Failed relationships leave people with baggage. Sometimes overcoming this baggage is as easy as taking out the trash, but more often, it’s much more difficult. Letting go of emotional baggage can take years of painful self-reflection, more humility than most men possess, and often, intense therapy. If you don’t know exactly what I mean when … Read more

11 Ways To Reassure Your Girlfriend Of Your Love

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As men, we all like to think we’re the most reassuring partners in the world. However, it’s no secret that we sometimes struggle to articulate our thoughts into spoken words.  Internally, we are unequivocally sure that we deeply love and cherish our partners, but we sometimes struggle to convey that through our words. At the … Read more

The 7 Best Dating Coaches For Men

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Does dating feel like an endless challenge? Does it feel like for every step forward you take, you take another two steps back?  Does it feel like no matter what you do, you can’t seem to find the right women and make the right connections? Do you legitimately worry that you will be alone for … Read more

Is It Really Okay To Reconnect With Your Old Love Who Is Still Married? 

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Life is full of regrets. It’s very common for men to find themselves hung up on past love and struggle to let go.  And when the opportunity to connect with a forever lover presents itself, it is often a complicated issue — especially if your former lover is now married.  To be perfectly clear, connecting with … Read more

The Do’s and Dont’s of Approaching Women at the Gym

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The gym isn’t just for working out; it’s also a great place to meet women. You might have experienced that moment during a workout when you catch an attractive woman making eye contact with you. Maybe it’s not the first time you’ve noticed the same girl, and she seems to be sending clear signals of … Read more

How Hookup Culture Drains Men of their Power, Value, and Worth

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The night is young, and the city pulsates with a promise that speaks directly to the primal core of man’s desires. The quest for the night is simple yet profound – the search for validation, be it fleeting or long lasting, powered by the adrenaline of attraction and the allure of pleasure. The parties, festivals, … Read more

The Gentleman’s Guide to Authentic Friendships with Women

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It’s a question that’s practically as old as time itself: Can men and women be “just friends”?  Have you ever encountered a woman in your life who you were not romantically attracted to but wanted to have a platonic relationship with? Maybe you struggled to communicate this and didn’t want her to get the wrong … Read more

11 Ways to Become A Man Every Woman Wants

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What makes a man a good partner? What makes a woman desire one man over another? Is it his hair, his muscles, or the shape of his face? Is it all about looks, or are there other factors at play?  Is it the car he drives? The amount of money he has in his bank … Read more

7 Ways to Overcome Digital Dating Burnout and Rekindle In-Person Sparks

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Digital dating can be great, but it can also take a lot out of you. It’s not uncommon to experience digital dating ‘burnout’ that leaves you feeling like the whole thing is pointless.  It’s important to remember that dating sites are businesses first and foremost. As much as these sites would like you to believe … Read more

9 Modern Dating Myths Every Man Should Ignore

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Nowadays, everyone you meet seems to want to give you dating advice. If you’re a man, the advice may come from your best friend, brother, or even your dad.  Oppositely, you might take a different approach and seek advice from a female point of view. And this makes sense — after all, what better way to … Read more

The Samurai Mindset: How to Always Be At Your Best

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How often are you at your best? If you’re like most men, the answer is rarely, or even never. In an age rampant with digital addiction, unregulated dopamine release, and a wide range of acceptable excuses for outright immaturity and irresponsibility, very few men are EVER performing even remotely close to their best. You can … Read more

Sheep vs. Wolf vs. Sheepdog: Which Mentality Dominates Your Life?

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A majority of men have a sheep mentality. They are followers whose actions and beliefs are reflections of the majority. Their lives are societal constructions, and they like it that way because to go your way is to embrace a life of difficulty and uncertainty. A few men are wolves. They detest passivity and peace … Read more

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