Girlfriend Has Many Guy Friends: When Should You Really Be Concerned?

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We all want to feel secure in our relationships. We all want to be with someone we can trust. We’re all searching for that foundation, that bedrock, that’ll provide us with stability, comfort, and happiness. But sometimes, we end up in situations that rock those foundations, like being involved with a woman who has close … Read more

Chasing Vs. Pursuing a Woman: What’s the Difference and How to Recognize Traps?

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In modern dating, the distinction between chasing and pursuing a woman is a subtle yet crucial one. Consider the following: Despite living in an era of unprecedented connectivity and social interaction, many men find themselves adrift in the sea of modern dating, grappling with questions like: “What’s the right way to show interest in a … Read more

Frame Control in Relationships: How to Maintain Balance and Respect

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For most men, frame control is a confusing topic; it’s too complicated. They give up on trying to understand frames, and on trying to control balance and respect in their relationships. They give up on trying to understand the women they are pursuing and start to blame everyone and everything but themselves for their relationship … Read more

9 Ways Divorce Changes A Man And How to Navigate The New You

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Few things in life can be as debilitating as a divorce. At the same time, divorce can also be an incredibly liberating experience. Even more fascinating is the fact that it can be both these things at the same time.  If you’ve just gotten divorced, you may feel a mix of anger, sadness, regret, relief, … Read more

10 Best Ways to Manage Emotions for Men Going Through Divorce

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For many men, divorce is the single most emotional experience of their lives. A mix of anger, sadness, confusion, betrayal, and loss can leave a man feeling vulnerable, isolated, and overwhelmed.  Societal expectations can make it difficult for a man to process his emotions, leading to further feelings of isolation. It isn’t uncommon for a … Read more

Should You Be Dating a Fearful Avoidant Woman?

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Do you ever feel as if your girlfriend is afraid to love you? Do you feel as if the more you give, the more she pulls away and the only time she actually surrenders to your relationship is when she fears she’s losing you? If this sounds familiar to you, you’re dealing with a woman … Read more

13 Signs Of Disrespect In A Relationship That Reveal A Lack Of Love (And How To Fix It)

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Whether you’re in a short-term or long-term relationship (or married), feeling disrespected can quickly erode feelings of love and compassion in a relationship.  Often, these disrespectful behaviors come in the form of passive-aggressive acts.  And often, they leave you feeling very conflicted…  On the one hand, what your partner says and does upsets you deeply. … Read more

10 Best Qualities Women In Their 30s Want In A Man

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The big 3-0. Whether you’re turning 30, have already hit that plateau, or are already thinking about the big 4-0, you may wonder what women in their 30s want from a man. While there are certain traits that a woman of any age wants in a mate, there are a few specific things you need to … Read more

9 Best Ways To Get Over Someone You Never Dated

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When you develop deep romantic feelings for someone you’ve never dated, it can be a difficult situation to navigate. When an ordinary relationship ends, you at least get a sense of closure. However, these situations may leave you wondering, “What if?”  While it’s common for people to develop romantic feelings after a one-night stand or … Read more

11 Signs A Woman Has Multiple Partners and What to Do About It

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So, you’ve met a woman that you’ve completely fallen for. You’ve been dating for a while, and everything has been going well. She might even be “the one.”  The problem is, you’re not entirely sure you’re the only one in her life. You can’t place your finger on it exactly, but something leads you to … Read more

What To Do When You’re No Longer Attracted To Your Partner

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Most relationships start with a high level of physical attraction and chemistry. You’re crazy about her, she’s crazy about you, and you can hardly keep your hands off each other. But then, over time, something happens, and the fire starts to fade. It may occur over a few months or even a few years, but … Read more

The Comparison Trap: What It Is And How To Break Out Of It

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As men, it’s natural for us to compare to one another. Whether it’s relationships, careers, or socio-economic status, we constantly look at what we have (or don’t have) compared to others.  Generally, there isn’t anything wrong with making comparisons. Most men argue that these comparisons drive growth. Look at the economy, for example. Individuals, businesses, … Read more

The 9 Best Marriage Coaches For Men

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Marriage is one of the most important relationships that you will have in your life. Perhaps the only relationships that even compare are those with a parent and a child. Other than that, marriage is it. It’s the pinnacle of relationships. Don’t you want to have a good one? Do you know how to have … Read more

The Challenges of Long-Distance Relationships and How to Make It Work

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Most men are terrified of long-distance relationships. In a world where dating apps are running the romantic economy, college degrees and work opportunities are pulling people out of state and even country, and international relationships are becoming more and more common, you have to know how to make long-distance relationships work for you. Studies show … Read more

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