35: Marni Kinrys: Go From Mr. Nice Guy to OMG Who is That


I’m Marni the wing girl, and I’ve spent the last decade helping tens of thousands of men go from being Mr. Nice Guy to Mr. Holy S&*T, I Want Him!!!

Every product I create, every conference I put on, every coaching call I make, I have one simple mission. . . give the good guy the edge. You are about to learn everything you need to know about women. Including the things that women would never want you to know.

I am the founder of The Wing Girl Method. What’s special about my method? I give you access to the 5% of knowledge about attracting women that no man can ever teach you. How do I have access to this? Because I know women inside and out. For goodness sake, I am one. In other words, I have a vagina.

My job as a wing girl is to teach you everything you need to know to attract, date and get any girl you want.

Favorite Success Quote

“You can’t turn a woman on until you turn yourself on” – Marni, The Wing Girl Method

Early Challenge

Marni used to be all the guys she worked with. She was intimidated by beautiful women, put women on pedestals and could never be her self in front of pretty women. And at age 20 Marni had a stroke from all the social anxiety and pressure that she put on her self. This affected her confidence, self esteem and the way she presented herself to the world.

Ah-Hah Moment

While at a party that was very dull Marni decided to mix the group together by introducing men to women. She created an experience for the guests at the party and felt she was responsible for the positive outcome of the party. Marni went home and the idea came to her: to help men meet women and become their best selves.

Influential Books

How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie

Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz

Get Inside Her by Marni Kinrys

Connect with Marni



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One Response to 35: Marni Kinrys: Go From Mr. Nice Guy to OMG Who is That

  1. Jeremy March 12, 2014 at 9:39 pm #

    Great great episode! Packed with loads of real advice and not the kind of bullshit you get from most dating “experts”. The real coaches all know that you need to work on yourself first. And learning to really communicate, putting aside your ego, and being vulnerable. Love that. Really like her attitude too, she must be a really fun person to hang out with!

    I’m providing a link to Amy Cuddy’s Ted talk that Marni has referenced. It’s an awesome Ted talk by the way, with over 3 million views. I’ve watched it.