Building a relationship is kind of like building a house. You start with the foundation – basic connection, chemistry, and all that other stuff that makes you like someone in the first place, and from there you work your way up until you have not just a house, but a home. You build and build … Read more

Codependency is an epidemic. Too many men allow themselves to become consumed by their relationships. Have you lost yourself in your partner? You’re not alone. Becoming codependent isn’t a rarity. It happens to the vast majority of us. Over 90% of Americans admit to engaging in some codependent behavior. The messaging we get about relationships … Read more

Understanding women and knowing what they want in a relationship have dumbfounded men for millennia. Yes, men are often baffled by their girlfriends and unsure how to keep them truly happy. If you’ve found yourself second-guessing her and yourself at every turn, you’re not alone in your strife. Healthy, long-standing relationships don’t happen by accident. … Read more

For most men, there’s nothing more disheartening than the fruitless pursuit of women. The uneasy approach, the uneven beat of your heart, the amused twinkle in her eyes as she turns—and at last, the dull ache in your chest as you make your way back to your seat, rejected once again. It would be best … Read more

Some women can be manipulative to get what they want in their relationship. That’s not how a relationship should work. You might have seen it happen to you or your friends when they get in relationships with controlling girlfriends. These relationships can quickly turn toxic. Once a guy is whipped by an attractive woman, he … Read more

If you’re like most men out there, and you struggle to know when someone likes you; don’t worry, you’re not alone. It’s super common for men to find it hard to know when a girl is interested, and it’s not your fault either, this is mainly down to fundamental differences in how the sexes communicate: … Read more

When you find out your wife is cheating, your world turns upside down. You start questioning everything. Are you a good lover? Is this your fault? Why would she do this? All those questions flood your mind. You feel angry, betrayed, and scared—and rightfully so. For most men, infidelity is an automatic relationship breaker. Of … Read more

There is something uniquely terrible about being lonely for a long time. It’s bad enough that you feel lonely on a regular basis, but it also makes you lose the confidence you had. After a long time of flying solo, you may also have a hard time making friends. Social skills are like a muscle. … Read more

Why do good girls like bad guys? In addition to being the name of an iconic punk rock song from the early 2000s, it’s a question that plagues millions of men in modern society. And it’s easy to see why. If you ask most women what they want, they’ll respond with “A nice guy.” They … Read more

You’ve probably been that guy who pulls away at some point in your relationship, often after intimacy. Maybe you still are that guy. It’s okay. I relate. I used to be that guy too and so have many men who are a part of my relationship coaching program. Pulling away is something that many men … Read more

It’s great to tell someone that you love them, that you want to be with them, or that you care about them. But how do you actually show them that you love them with actions? What would you do if your words meant nothing? Especially for men, it can be hard to show our romantic … Read more

“Walls keep everybody out. Boundaries teach them where the door is.” — Mark Groves Are you a doormat? Do you lead your own, independent life? Are you in charge? Or, on the other hand, does your wife or girlfriend tell you exactly what to do? If you’re giving her the reins to your existence, I’ve … Read more

You deserve better than a hum-drum relationship. As a high-achieving man, you are capable of creating a strong, quality connection with a woman who you love. However — as all too many of us know — life doesn’t always pan out as you might expect. When you become complacent in your relationship, you will find … Read more

“We are most alive when we’re in love.” — John Updike Life is better when it’s shared. No man is an island. Creating a high-quality life means nothing if you don’t have a partner by your side. However, you don’t want to go around dating the wrong women who don’t have what it takes to … Read more