Where are you?
I don’t know where you are right now. I guess that in some way you feel stuck. Maybe you are desperate for change in an area of your life.
Perhaps you just know that there is something more for you in life that you’re not living. I’ve been in those places.
I’ve felt like I really wasn’t going at the speed or in the direction I wanted to go.
In this article, you will hear how I came to the place where I began to get unstuck and develop abundance in my own life. Then I’ll share how you can take your steps to getting unstuck from anything in your life.
Not too long ago I was living a grand life. I was buying and selling houses and I was satisfied with my life. In addition, I was also successful in sales for an Information Technology company. I was one of the top performers in the company I was working for. However, even though I was successful, I knew there was something more for me.
Around 2006 I felt this tug. I felt a call to release my hands from the properties I was purchasing. I admit that I was also discouraged about some aspects of the real estate business. But I felt like God was calling me to something bigger and he wanted me to start opening my eyes up to what that was.
The call was so extreme that I sold my SUV, which was really important for me in the real estate business because I used it to haul things for my houses, and bought a sporty car.
I was single and I desired to be married as well. At that time I shifted my mindset from one where I was doing things I knew how to do, and I moved from Saskatoon Canada to Toronto Canada because I met a girl, who is now my wife.
I met her at a wedding and I asked her to dance. I did this because I needed to respond to my inner gut feeling that this was the right move. If I hadn’t asked her to dance, I would have missed my opportunity because she was heading to another wedding and was going to meet another guy there. But we hit it off and talked for two hours.
Why am I telling you all this? It’s because the story is really powerful. Not to long after that I was frustrated and struggling and didn’t know where I was going with my life. That’s where I found myself shortly after I started dating Nicole.
How I felt wasn’t her fault! It’s just that I had moved to Toronto to court her and I was in the process of “releasing”, as I mentioned before. I didn’t have my identity anymore.
I didn’t have my fellowship. I didn’t have my friends. Also, I was unemployed and, on top of that, I didn’t have a place to stay for a while. I remember breaking down inside. I didn’t know where I was. I didn’t know what I really wanted. I didn’t know what my values were and I had a terrible mindset.
Furthermore, I wasn’t making the best decisions in my life. At this point I started to ask myself, “Scott what is my life purpose?” It wasn’t a very good place for me. I was once again stuck but I didn’t stay that way.
Based on my story so far here are some life changing questions for you!
I felt this tug. I felt a call to release my hands from the properties I was purchasing. I admit that I was also discouraged about some aspects of the real estate business. . But I felt like God was calling me to something bigger and he wanted me to start opening my eyes up to what that was.
Do you feel a tug or a call to something bigger? Are your senses opened to what that might be?
I really wasn’t on my path to do what I knew that I needed to do. I wasn’t doing everything I needed to do or that I felt called to do. Nicole told me a little bit earlier than this about life coaching and it appealed to me.
Has someone significant in your life impressed upon you a calling which appeals to you? Describe what they told you.
Shortly after we got married I decided to take a course to become a life coach.
Have you ever made a snap decision that cost you? What was that experience and what did it cost you?
What lesson did you learn from that experience?
Why do I tell you this? The biggest reason is that I lost my “why”? I lost what was driving me.
What “why” (your purpose or calling, the thing that is drives you) have you not pursued or “lost” that is leaving you feeling stuck and frustrated?
The reason I felt stuck is because I had lost my “why”. In fact I didn’t even know what a “why” was. But that changed when I became a student of personal development. I read about the best coaching tools, I researched core values, life purpose, mindsets ,and I learnt from some of the most successful people.
I when back to school and became a Certified Professional Coach and then I started Abundance Coaching. Now I am bless to have helped 1000s of people on stage, in groups and one-on-one to get unstuck from anything in their life so that they can live their life purpose with passion and abundance.
Do You Need to Get Unstuck? – Find Your Why
If you have lost your “why”, use then use my story to motivate you to once again pursue your own purpose in life. Let’s face it – we all get stuck at different levels and at different times in life.
This led me to develop and implement the steps to what I call the Life Purpose and Abundance Process and pursue coaching as a career so I could teach others what I learned.
Through my research, coaching and experience I have discover the 12 keys to get unstuck from anything in life and this has helped me bounce back from disappointments and live a life that is filled with passion and abundance.
You are amazing. You have been created amazing and perhaps there is something holding you back from accepting and embracing that fact. You have also been created to live your life purpose with passion and abundance! This is vastly different from living a life where you feel stuck, debilitated and unmotivated.
You can live your life purpose and I can help.
You can join a community of like-minded people who are all being coached by myself as their performance coach. On the link below I give you an invitation to get a FREE LIFE PURPOSE PLAN SESSION where I will get you clear on where you want to go in your future and we will build a plan and path for you to get there.
Find out more about the Life Purpose and Abundance Process by going here.
I will help you discover your “why” worth living. Get unstuck from anything in your life so that you can live your life purpose with passion and abundance!
- Scott Epp C.P.C., Founder of Abundance CoachingPhotos: © Photobank © photowings © alphaspirit © kevron2001 – Fotolia.com